Since December Chad has been working Friday-Monday and I work Monday-Thursday. That equals NO DAYS OFF TOGETHER. It wasn't a big deal for like the first 3 months, but the past 3 months I've gotten so sick of it!
Any activity that takes over like 3 hours is out of the question. It's impossible to go out of town together, take a day trip to the lake, etc. There are so many things that I feel like we can't ever do. I try my best to think of tons of little things but it isn't the same. We never have a day to just chill and relax together either.
Plus he has missed, my mom's 50 birthday party, Easter, Mother's Day, etc. If you think about it pretty much every holiday is celebrated over the weekend which means no Chad. Or we have to wait for him to get off at 3:30 which seems like it always ends up being 4:30 when we have something planned.
I know he hates it just as much (if not more) as me. Not only can we not spend time together, he doesn't even get to go to most of the fun stuff. He's a good sport and just works hard anyway. Everyone he works with just raves about him and I believe it. Chad is an incredibly hard-worker!
There was a weekday position available a few weeks ago, but that particular position gets off at 4:30 which won't work unless we change his fall school schedule. There isn't any wiggle room in his school schedule so if we have to change it that means adding another semester. I'd rather suck it up for another year than add another semester. I'm ready to be done with the UNLV undergraduate program.
We've thought about looking at other companies, but even though he doesn't get paid very much hourly, our
insurance is SUPER cheap. Plus I'm ready to
possibly start thinking about another child and if we switch companies you never know how long you have to wait for insurance benefits to start.
...Breath Allison...I clearly have some venting to do. I know I should just be grateful that he has a job. I try to tell myself that and normally it works. Today it doesn't. I can't think of any alternatives for at least the next year, so I just need to embrace that and move on.
But today all I want to say it
ggggggggggrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr!
I'M SO OVER CHAD'S JOB TODAY!