Thursday, January 28, 2021

Sutton @ 6

 Sutton is at such a fun stage right now.  He is old enough to do the "big kid" things but still young enough that Mommy and Daddy can still fix all of his problems.  I can't believe he is already 6!  Here are my ramblings about Sutton at 6 years old -

He is your typical baby of the family.  He is here for the party and doesn't really want to do the work.  We is the first to declare when something isn't fun and is highly skilled at getting out of a task.  He knows just when to flash his smile and can melt your heart with his adorable laugh.  He is all about any life hacks.  If it makes his life simple than he is doing it.  For example, he will sleep on top of his covers so he doesn't have to make his bed.  He will try to hop in the bath and get wet but not use soap.  He will stuff all of his laundry in two drawers.  Now we do make him correct these behaviors but is doesn't seem to slow down the number of corners he tries to cut.

Sutton loves to play with his brothers.  They are definitely his best friends.  He and Keller have an especially close friendship and spend hours playing outside with the neighborhood kids. They jump on the trampoline, ride scooters, play street hockey, swim, build Legos, kick a soccer ball, etc.  Sutton looks up to Vance and jumps at the opportunity to play video games with him or sleep in his bed.

He is a dog lover.  He loves Babe and Autumn and gives them so many cuddles.  On the weekends he frequently falls asleep next to one of them on the dog bed.  He wants dog books, stuffed dogs to play with, dog coloring pages, etc.

Sutton is doing fantastic at school.  He is a great little reader but he loves math.  His teacher says he is an example to his classmates and she can always count on him to help her or other students when necessary.  

He is quiet.  Now at home he is silly and talkative but when he is at school, sports, or really anything with people besides just our family he is very, VERY quiet.  He prefers to sit back and observe the group.  He definitely never wants the spotlight on him and gets really nervous if it is.  He is slowly getting more comfortable talking to adults and I'm proud of him every time he does because I know how scary it can be for him. 

Sutton loves to be home.  He wants to sign up for activities but he wants/needs plenty of time to just be home.  His school day is long so I think he is still a little tired most afternoons and the thought of having to go somewhere else wears him out.

He has a temper!  Sometimes I see it coming and then other times he will have an angry fit over the smallest thing.  Let's just say he is really...passionate...

Sutton has the most adorable smile and giggle.  His entire face just lights up when he smiles and you can't help but smile back.  His giggle comes from his gut and is one of my favorite sounds every.

He hates to pick up after himself.  Oftentimes when he is bored he'll refuse to get out toys because he knows he will have to pick them up.  He would rather sit and do nothing than have to put a handful of things away.  Silly boy!

Sutton is learning to play the piano.  He is catching on quick for his age and has almost completed the first book.  He is used to seeing his brothers practice so I think he knows the drill.  I love when he sings his songs!

He loves junk food.  He would prefer to never eat a fruit or vegetable.  Every meal he knows he has to have produce but tries to get out of it.  He sneaks over to Grandma's house for goodies as often as he can.  He is slowly starting to discover a few healthy things he likes but the struggle is real.

Sutton loves to print out coloring sheets and color at his desk in Chad's office.  He will have us print out 3 or 4 at a time.  When he finishes each page, he proudly displays it on the fridge.

He likes to play video games.  He only has video game privileges two days a week but you can guarantee he will be maximizing his play time to the fullest.  His favorite games are Rocket League (it's like soccer with cars) and Minecraft.

Sutton frequently walks with a little extra pep in his step.  It's hard to describe.  It isn't quite a skip but there is some type of hop when he walks.  I like to think he is just too full of life to walk slow and boring.

He loves to play board games.  He is a strategic little guy and catches on to new games quickly.  He has a few favorites but is always willing to try something new.  Playing a game is one of his favorite ways to have one-on-one time.

Sutton loves pickles.  Any time I say he needs a healthy snack, his go-to is pickles.  His second choice is cucumbers.

He is athletic.  I think he is so good at sports because he is always trying to keep up with Keller and Vance.  When we finally gets to play with kids his own age it feels like they're playing half-speed to him.  Right now he is playing soccer and deck hockey.  He wanted to try basketball but we decided to have him wait one more year.  He is also happy to hit some baseballs in the backyard or go play tennis at the park.  I can't wait to see what activity he really loves as he matures but I'm fairly confident it will be a sport.

Sutton is fully in the stage of thinking all things fart, butts, balls, etc. are hysterical.  It isn't my favorite but I do love the giggles that accompany these topics.

On the weekends he stays up so much later than Keller and Vance did when they were his age.  We don't really have a strict bedtime on non-school nights so he eventually passes out on the couch.  He wants to be a part of the fun as long as possible.

He loves Chad and prefers to be working side-by-side whenever possible.  Sometimes they are at their desks in Chad's office (Sutton put his desk right next to Chad's) or he will follow Chad around and assist on a house project.  Then my usually quiet boy will talk Chad's ear off.  It is so sweet how much he looks up to his daddy.

Sutton is fairly cautious.  He wants to see everyone else try something before he does and if he has made his mind up, he doesn't typically let you convince him otherwise.

His favorite clothes are whatever is on top in his drawer.  He doesn't care if he matches, if it has holes, or it's dirty and he put it back in the drawer instead of the hamper.  He wants comfort!

Sutton loves to snuggle in the mornings.  He especially loves the weekends when he can climb right in the middle of Chad and me in our bed.  He is the best cuddler!

He doesn't really play with toys.  In fact we have gotten rid of just about all of them.  It seems weird to not have very many but he prefers to be outside, on electronic, or playing a game.

Sutton wants everything to be fun.  If it isn't fun he doesn't understand why he should spend his time going it.  It's kind of funny when you ask him to do something and he just looks back and says, "But that's not fun."  The look on his face says he thinks that should be a good enough reason not to do it.

He is sneaky.  He is so quiet and has mastered flying under the radar when necessary.  He also has no qualms telling someone not to tell Mom or Dad something he is doing.  Sometimes after we put him into bed we will find him playing in a different room with the door shut.  Or out of the corner of your eye you'll see him running back into his room when you never realized he left it.  We are going to have to be on our A-game when he is a teenager.

Suttonbaby we love you and all the energy you bring to our family.  Life is never boring with you!

Wednesday, January 27, 2021

Sutton-ology

Sutton gets lots of comments about his red hair.  He doesn't say much about it but one days he randomly asked, "Can I be a blonde-head or brown-head instead?"

One day we were at Vance's practice and Sutton was helping to pick up the volleyballs.  The coach said, "Thanks big guy!"  Sutton had a weird look on his face as we walked back to me and said, "Mom he just called me a big guy.  Why did he do that? I'm just a medium guy."

Sutton's class had a little performance at school.  They were doing it two days and Chad and I planned to attend the second day.  When I asked him how the first day went he happily exclaimed, "Mom you just missed the whole thing!"  My mom guilt started setting in but there was also something so funny about the way he said it.

He has been obsessed with growing up lately.  He'll randomly ask questions like "How long before I'm bigger than someone?"  He would really like to be bigger than his brothers.  He will also ask, "How do you grow up quicker?"  Sorry bud...being the baby has lots of perks but from one baby to another - one of the downsides is you just never feel like you can catch up to your older siblings.

Aunt Jennie had Sutton with her one afternoon.  As they drove through her neighborhood he said, "These houses are right next to each other.  I wouldn't like that.  How can you play golf or baseball in your backyard?"  The lots in her neighborhood are actually a decent size but he has gotten so spoiled by living on an acre.  It cracks me up that he thinks everyone should be able to play golf or baseball in the backyard.

Sutton refuses to acknowledge he takes naps.  He calls them "resters."  And in case you were wondering he takes quite a few of them...

Me: Who wants to play me in ping pong?
Sutton: Me! But I don't want to like play a game because then I like always lose.

One day we were talking about the different roles of moms and dads at dinner.  We talked about the pros and cons of either going to work or staying at home.  Sutton absorbed it all for a minute before saying, "They're both hard but one sucks...going to work!"  Let's hope he has a wife who wants to go to work so he can stay home.

Sutton went through a phase of saying "venus" instead of "vaginas" for awhile.  It seems like we've finally corrected him enough times but it cracked me up!

The boys have to do five chores a week.  Sutton is still a little young to do a lot of the heavier dutier chores so he does a lot of vacuuming.  He has gotten lazier and sneakier and will just stand in one place with the vacuum on.  Now that I've caught on I empty our cordless vacuum before he starts and then he has to vacuum until it is at least half full.  The first spots he vacuums are where the dogs tend to shed a lot: the dog bed, crates, rugs, etc.  Apparently that wasn't cutting it fast enough and he came up with a better idea.  I found him chasing the dogs around and attempting to vacuum the actual dogs!!!  When I asked if he thought the dogs liked being vacuumed, he said, "Nope I don't think so but they have lots of hair!"  Oh Sutton...

The boys' allowance gets larger as they get older and we expect more from them.  Sutton only gets $1 a week so obviously it doesn't go very far.  He also has the largest wishlist at any given time.  When he asks for something I usually respond with, "Sure you can get it, do you have your money?"  99% of the time this reply is, "Nope.  I'm broke.  I just always spend all of my dollars."

I promise Sutton really is a good boy but he is a sneaky booger.  Here are just a few examples:
We have rules about when we can play video games.  Sutton will wake up early and play on silent.  Luckily he has brothers who tell me when I wake up.

One day while I was working, Sutton was sprinting around the house and locking the doors to the outside.  Red flag anyone? When I asked why he told me that Keller was going to come tell on him for something and he didn't want him to.  I guess I'll give him some credit for honesty but you're killing me kid!

Sutton hates to put away his laundry.  One afternoon it seemed like he put it away way too fast.  After telling me he definitely put it away the way I like it, I decided to double check.  The little turkey put the entire hamper of clean clothes in the closet.  He didn't put away one thing!!!

We were all in the car and Sutton randomly declared, "I want a baby.  How much are they?"  He didn't understand why we weren't willing to just go get him a baby.  Sorry sweet boy, but that just ain't happening!

Sutton detests chores.  I know no one really loves them but he really dislikes them.  One day when I was telling him his chore he looked right back at me said, "Well that's not fun.  I like to have fun."  Me too but chores are happening any way bud!

Monday, January 11, 2021

Vegas & Mom's Weekend

Chad and Keller went to Vegas!  Chad wanted to go meet Carter, Brent and Janessa's adorable baby boy, and Keller got airfare to Vegas as a Christmas gift.  We got some new travel stuff, including these cool things for your phone, and Keller was pretty excited to be the first one to try it out.
Amy and David were the best hosts.  They let Keller stay with them so he could play with Tristan and Jayden while Chad stayed with his parents.  They went to Gravady and the movies.  Amy said Keller was all smiles and super grateful.  He loves his cousins and I love that they could spend the weekend together.



One night Chad went to dinner with one of his old volleyball teammates, Jordan.  I'm so glad that they could catch up!
Chad got to love on baby Carter and baby Jaxon.  I was so jealous!!



Chad also went out to dinner with the Terry crew and played games at the Mathewsons.  He enjoyed spending time with his parents and siblings.  It was a quick trip but they tried to squeeze in as much as possible.

When I go out of town by myself they all talk about how awesome "guys weekend" is.  At first I was going to follow the typical "guys weekend" agenda but then I decided instead we were going to have a "moms weekend."  

First I took them shopping.  They weren't so sure but I told them we would go to one store and they could pick out one or two things.  Once we got in the store, they caught the visions and had fun picking stuff out for themselves.  Usually I always shop online or just shop by myself and bring things home for them.  It was fun to see what they picked out for themselves.

Then we went out to a sit-down restaurant.  Olive Garden was definitely a hit...I think the breadsticks and mint is really what won them over.
Once we got home we did a little self-care: face masks, scrubbed out heals, paraffin wax for the hands and feet.  So lovely!



Then both boys hopped in my bed and declared a slumber party.  Thank goodness for a king mattress!

I think they decided both "guys weekend" and "moms weekend" are pretty awesome.  

The real treat of the weekend was it snowed!!! It's the first time it has snowed since we moved to Texas and I was so bummed Keller and Chad weren't here.  We had fun playing in it before it melted!

I still can't believe our backyard was covered in a thin layer of snow.



 Chad and Keller made it safely home and I'm glad we can all be together again.

Friday, January 1, 2021

Snow Trip


Santa brought the family a snow trip to New Mexico.  Everyone got new winter gear and everything we needed for some fun in the snow!  

It is about a 10 hour drive to Taos, New Mexico where we stayed.  The boys have become road trip champs!  Even though it was dark outside the boys put on their gear and played in the snow while Chad and I settled into our room.  They made snow angels, had a snowball fight, and even made a snow chair.  They were so excited to just be in the snow!
We eventually convinced them to come inside and get some sleep.  Our hotel was nice and the boys' favorite part was breakfast.  We paid a little extra when we booked to be able to order breakfast everyday.  The food was so yummy!
The next morning we woke up to snow everywhere.  I'm so glad it snowed while we were there so the boys could experience the magic of waking up to a fresh layer of snow.  I think snow covered trees are so beautiful!
The first day the drive took longer than expected.  The road up the mountain was windy, icy, and not very well groomed.  We took an unfortunate slide into a guardrail on one turn.  Luckily, Chad had been driving super cautious so we didn't have a ton of speed and the only damage was some cracked hub caps and anxiety.

We eventually made it to the resort.  We got all of our gear and dropped the boys off to ski school.  The first day we signed all the kiddos up for full day lessons.  We figured that way they could learn from someone who is not us and we could snowboard at our own pace on harder runs for one day.  Best. Decision. Ever.

Chad and I had an absolute blast boarding together.  Our first snowboard trip was when we were just 16 years old!!!  I always love doing outdoor activities together.  Most of my favorite memories with Chad include us being active together.  I think it is a critical component of a healthy relationship for us.  It may sound cheesy but I think we both felt a renewed burst of energy for our marriage after our day on the slopes.

We saw a deer gallop across the run.  It was so freaking cool!  I have never seen that before.  One thing we really loved about this resort was that it was still really wooded.  Other places we have boarded had been heavily cleared and didn't necessarily feel like you were in the middle of the mountains like this did.
We tried to run into each boy at some point during the first day.  We wanted to observe from a distance to see how they were progressing as well as say "hi" so the kiddos knew we were thinking about them.  


Vance really lucked out.  He ended up being the only person in his class.  He got a one-on-one lesson with this super cool 20-something guy.  By the end of the day, he had perfected carving and was starting to learn some basic tricks.
When the kids are in lessons, you eat lunch on the go and board as hard as you can until it is time to pick them up.  Chad bought a couple protein bars while I stopped for my one and only potty break.  We both grew up skiing hard, packing lunches, and not spending any time in the lodge.  We did our parents proud...haha!
Sutton learned so much.  He understood the concept of riding an edge and had pretty good balance.  His instructor was so sweet with him.  He looked so tiny and adorable on the board.



Keller fell in love with snowboarding.  He preferred speed so he couldn't wait for the second day where he didn't have to wait for anyone in his class.  He was all smiles every time we saw him.



I was nervous that I wouldn't be able to snowboard anymore because it has been a long while but I picked it right back up.  About half way through the first run, I felt comfortable and started really having fun.  The snow was INCREDIBLE!!!  There was so much fresh powder.  I started pushing the speed and carving harder than I used to way back when.  It was an absolute blast!  Chad felt the same way.  He had fun hitting a few jumps and really hitting the powder in the trails through the trees.  We both felt like it was the most fun we had ever had snowboarding.
The lifts can be hard with a snowboard but the kids did way better than I did when I was a beginner.  Keller mastered it and wasn't afraid to ride the chairlift by himself.

After our first day we were all tired but equally excited for another day of snowboarding (this time as a family).

We woke up to even more fresh snow and much worse road conditions.  After sliding into the guard rail the first day we were even more cautious the second day.  Look at the picture below of the road.  Can't see it?  That's right...it is completely covered in snow.  Next year we will absolutely be purchasing chains.
I made the boys pose for a few pictures before starting our day.  I think they look so freaking studly and legit!

Chad took the little boys to the bunny hill while Vance and I did one big kid run.  I wasn't sure how Vance would handle it but he did fantastic!  He sometimes looks a little tense when learning something new but he was so relaxed and chill.  He had the snowboard vibe nailed!  He carved like a pro and only took a few minor tumbles.


I mean check out the tongue and everything ;)  I was so proud of him and had so much fun.  I can't wait until all the boys can board and we can ditch the bunny hill.
During a potty break, Chad knocked off icicles for everyone.  They then treated them as lollipops.  I couldn't decide if that was hysterical or disgusting but they loved it so we rolled with it.

Look at the view behind us as we rode up the lifts.  The valley was simply breathtaking.  

You just can't beat this view!
Teaching little ones to snowboard is no joke.  It is extremely tiring on your legs.  Chad was the real MVP and I don't know how he even had the strength to stand by the end of the day.
I loved taking pictures and videos of the boys.  They were thrilled to look through all of them at the end of the day.


I love this picture of the three boys.  I feel like it is a glimpse into the future.  I can just see them taking a quick break and talking about the next run or how awesome that jump was.  Being a boymom is the best!



Keller was quite the poser.  He usually hates pictures so you know he was having a fantastic time if he happily smiled and even asked for his picture to be taken.

I took some turns with Sutton as well.  I must've buckled binding 100 times but seeing how much they loved it made it all worthwhile.  One day everyone will be able to buckle their own bindings and we will just cruise down the mountain as a family.  At that point I'm sure they'll be thinking, "Come on Mom!  Faster!"
Remember the awful road conditions I have been talking about?!  I wasn't at all surprised when I saw this car off the road.  We also so multiple cars in the parking lot with flat tires and fresh dents.  It was really awful!

The second night we ordered in pizza and used our massager.  Our muscles were toast and I'm grateful we remembered to pack the massager gun!

Our last day in New Mexico we started the day by driving to the 10th highest bridge in the US.  It was over a small river and a gorgeous canyon.  The earth has so much beauty!

The boys weren't sure it would be fun but they quickly changed their mind once we started throwing rocks into the river.  It was fun to watch the wind catch them and bet whether the rock would eventually land in the water or not.  We cheered like we won the gold medal every time we saw a splash!



There were a few local Native Americans selling their handmade goods near the parking lot.  The boys loved the arrowheads, daggers, and tomahawks.  It was fascinating to hear locals' stories and their way of life on the pueblo.


Then we headed back to the snow for some sledding, snowball fight, and snow angels.  Our time on the hill was filled with laughter.  We left covered in snow, freezing cold, and happy as ever.










Chad was the master snowball maker.  I'm talking like Buddy-the-elf good.


This picture of Sutton pretty much sums up our afternoon.

 



Vance organized a snowball fight with other people on the hill.  I love that he is never afraid to put himself out there.  It ended up being so fun!
I'm so grateful for our little family and the fun and adventures we experience together!!!